One of the hardest times in my single years was dating scott. For some reason I played God in my head. I wanted to be married and have that life so badly that I made up a calling and a vision. I told myself that the Lord told me he was my husband. And even tho it was a year of back and forth dating, fights and even rejecting good advice. The pain I made myself walk in was so thick I should have been wearing waiters to track through all the extra stuff and emotional problems I had sunken into.
I see so many young ladies do this. They experience pain with one area or man and think, "well if this new/ old flame works then all will be fixed" im sorry but no it won't. Focusing your thoughts and time on a man who may or may not want you is not the way to fix your life! God is! And if you want a restored life then put down the lust of a relationship with a person. And pick up the pure love and relationship with Christ.
Ex's are ex's for a reason. They are not meant to be. If a man walks away from you then let him. Because the man God has for you will be chasing after you and putting in the work to keep you. Stop making excuses for a man that's not yours! He may have been in a relationship with you at one point,but he was never yours! My ex was never mine and I was never his! He has a beautiful woman as his wife and I have a sexy deputy ad my husband! And if you ask any of us we never saw the other coming,but when God had us meet, we knew. We didn't have to try we just fit.
My relationship with scott and others thought me so much. But my relationship with God has touched my life and given me more knowledge than my past relationship ever has. Our past is meant to stay behind us. Our God promises a hope and a future. We need to chase that and not a man.
My advice is to become the kind of woman you want your, brother or son to marry,and follow God whole heartedly. God will bring the husband if you trust him in the single days!
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