The Wife Academy.

So your hubby or man wants to be a cop. A few hours goes by after he tells you and then the whole cop thing sinks into your mind and heart. If you are anything like me it took getting maeried for it to really sink in. And then I was a lil mad at my hubby for a few days. It took being on a trip to see my sister two hours away for us to really talk about. I kept thinking "God I dont know how iam going to be understanding to this dream of his that could take him from me and maybe our kids!" So in this two hour car ride which really felt like years long our talk came to the point of "Do you trust God?" Im not gunna lie it took me a few days to say yes. I do. Just like on my wedding day,i do! That was half of step one. The other half was know he would have to quit his job and id be the only one working. So I got a job 30min from where we live. My day to day in the wife acadmey is, I get up go to work...drive home...do anything my needs me to do,ie dry cleaning....then we have dinner and its off to prep his uniforms make his lunch and breakfast. But the thing is ladies or guys is that my love of my life is doing.sooo much more in his day that I want to do these things for him. Its how I show him I love you and im by yourside for everything. Trust days will happen where you cant stand this stupid academy and you just want your hubby home but he is doing evoc. Which is the driving part. Or like me on our very 1st v-day he is doing his backgroud testing till who knows when. When I get this way I think back to the things my wonderful mother in law told me(my father in law was a cop for over 20 years) she says do your thing, go hangout with friends, have a beauty nite in nails hair all that stuff. Get a hobby so your happy when he gets home so you two can enjoy the time you do have. Even of its 1hour before bed. Id rather have one hour of joy with my man then be mad at him when he gets home late from the academy. So this time will have beinfits (3 day weekends) and its down falls but.if you trust God and know he wont give us anything we cant.handle then youll be good!