After a man says his "I do's" a certain amount of comfort sets in with his new wife. The new and exciting world of dating is over and the odd and wonderful world of marriage comes over you two like a wave. But even after you get the girl of your dreams anf she starts stealing your flannel shirts for bed and you see more make up less days then her glam days. She still wants to feel like you are still chasing after her. I have made a list of the top5 things that will help you make her feel still chased and desired!
1, Always text her first, this is important because a girl wants to know she is on your mind. Even if its a quick "hey I love you" or something a bit more. When we feel like we on your mind we feel like we are important.
2, Spend time with her friends. These people have been in her life maybe longer than you and they mean something to her. So spending time with them makes her feel like what she values matters to you. And doing that simple thing can make her more comfortable with you because she knows you care about every aspect of her life.
3, whatever you did to win her heart do those things to keep her heart. We feel in love with you in that time and the effort you put into the relationship. So many people feel like when the ring is on the finger the work gets to stop and life should just happen. But couples need to remember it took time to become connected so it will take work to stay connected.
4, pray with her! This makes the bond you have stronger. Prayer can be a very reveling and emotional time. Especially if she is having some life struggles. Taking the time to show her that you are with her in prayer and in the times of life makes the trust stronger between you two.
5, never criticize her body! With time comes changes
Some changes can be good and some can come from a place of comfort. A woman's body is sometimes the thing we have the most insecure thoughts about. Thats why when we go out as a single women we dress to impress. We want to be wanted. We want to feel beautiful. If we start to feel like you see more flaws than beauty you will notice a big change in her. So even if you see gravity hitting us love that her body is now yours and she wants to give it to you.
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