Famliy day

Yesterday was my husbands famliy day at his police acadmey. It was really great to see where he is all those hours in a week. I also got to meet the people that he is in class with. I felt so blessed to have a husband who will is doing something truly amazing with his life! I never thought id be the wife of a man this great. But thats how awesome God is. He over bless' his kids because he loves them that much. I cant stop myself from smiling today! I so needed that famliy day. It was like a boost. I really needed to see all these things for some reason. I was proud of alex at the start of this but my proud level just keeps growing and growing! But when you are with the right man that just happens. A cops wife will go in and out of hard times but some things she wont lose in those times is faith, love and pride. I felt all of that last night.

No shop.....

I have come to the point where my  shopping has become too much. I realized this after I left forever 21 this afternoon. (sorry hubby) my shopping is something I do when I feel insucure about myself. I want to deal with this issuse the correct way. Ive been really dealling with liking and loving who iam. And today I start the hard stuff. I will not be shopping fir clothes or shoes till october. I will learn to love myself and who I am with what I have,my wonderful hubby and my great God!

Its time to keep going!!

Lets keep going!! Im talking about getting fit today! I know for myself i can stop alot on my way to my fittness goals. But not this time! Why is this time not filled with stops, my husband is why. I will be a happy and fit wifey for hhim and for the other cops out on his future beat. I want my hubby to be a heathy cop and I want all cops to be heathy so they go home to the famliy they love and the famliy that needs them to go home. So find your reason to get or stay fit and think of that when  you want to  stop. My husband does some crazy workouts at his academy and he says when he wants to give up thow in the towel he thinks of our famliy. Have a reason outside of your self sometimes being fit for yourself is a get reason but having a higher goal than your jean size will keep you going longer and keep from talking yourself out of that trip  to the gym. Start small I only do 20 min 3 to 4 days a week. Try that but go hard for that 20 minn if you leave that gym and your body feels like its gunna fall apart then you had a good work out. And my final thing is pray!!! Always pary for your work out. God will bless you!!!

Legos

This was at the lego store in downtown diseny when Alex and I were on our honeymoon. But just look at what people did! How amazing is it!?? I bet at some point they thought it would never be done it was too hard. But it was finished and awesome! God is doing the same with your life. He has a plan and he is building you one lego at a time. It may take some time but when he is do it will be awesome. Enjoy the time you are in put the legos in his hands and let him build!

Go outside your group

As belivers in a mighty,kind,loving,and true God we should try and be like him everyday. We shouldnt let our christianess get in the way of serving him in a real way. The way he did by spending time with poeple talking with them. Do you only hangout.or talk to people  that are from your church ect...? Yes we do need to be around like minded people but if we are only  around the same group how do we reach others. The ones who are still looking for something. We found our something now its time to share it and be the church where ever we go. People should see that you are not like them but that you love them and are kind to them thats how God is shared. Try and talk to someone out side of your group today. God will bless it!

The cream in your coffee....

For me I like to taste the cream in my coffee, I wanna know its in that cup. All the flavor and yummy creamyness. Man! Do I love my coffee! But this is a good example of our faith lets call life our cup aand the sweet creamer is our faith. Faith makea life way more yummy and sweet! Do you know or do others know you have creamer in your cup. Is your life a sweet example of Gods love and all he can do to a life that makes it.... Well better! If your doing what he has called you to do, speak the way we should all speak(in love) then you are adding creamer to the cups of others. Share love and creamer today! Lol

Lets get fit!

Today is day one of the rest of my fittness life! God gave me this life this body and I will take of both because they are gifts. I need to always have that in my mind when I look at myself or my life, this is a gift! Thank you Lord I will love the gifts you give me! So lets get fit!!

My fittness

Ill be  tranning for a 5k my work is doing and using it as a way to reach some of my goals. My main goal is to be a heathy cop wife so I have a heathy cop hubby! So ill have updates on here and instagram. Alexslady1

I will love me and you should love you!

Iam a pear. My body starts at the top of my head which at this time  has big brown curly crazy hair. My middle is small and large and I end with my feet that are large. Ive never  thought of my self as girly because I dont have a small frame or hair that does what it should. The smallest ive ever been was a size 8 and 150. I still wasnt happy with that now im a 12 and well not 150, truth is I dont know how much I wiegh. My husband and I made a deal a long time ago that I wouldnt wiegh my self. But back to my point, loving ones self. Do you love your butt your hair your tummy? I know I have days where I say no to all of those but we should be saying yes. I was at the mall the other day and God put it on my heart to look at each women and pick out something beautiful. Now normally I people watch to do the other,pick people apart I think as women we so this to build our worth up. So I found something beautiful in each person and you know what at the end od my mall vist I was happier with myself I loved my self. My thick legs and crazy hair. Thats me and im awesome just as you are. When you love what youve got you actually love God more beacuse you werw made in his image. Seld doubt in our looks is a lie the devil tells us to stop us from reaching a goal a dream or the true love of God. Love you and find good things about youralef today!!

The book and its cover

On my last day trip to san fran a man was singing on the sidewalk trying to sell some of his cd's. His vocie was one of the most beautiful vocies I have ever heard in my life. And as I was thinking this someone said "he has a great vocie but his face isnt made for pictures" I stoped all thoughts and just sat in that, wow as people we short other based on things we think matter and its not his face that makes the side walk man great at singing. Why should we see anything other than that? "Dont judge a book by its cover" pretty much sums it up. This side walk man or the book and its cover would never let you know whats it all about unless you open it, read it. Why do we care soo much about the cover of books and not the great story they have waiting for us??

When is it my turn!?

God use me the way you want. I want to be used for your glory so badly,its all ive wanted. I have this cry in my heart and im just knocking at the door which leads to this but how do I get in??? Ive dreamed of being a speaker and writer my whole life. God has given me so much to say about him his love and all he does. I see and know so many amazing women of God who are this point in thier life it truly is hard at times not to be green with envy but happy for them. And I am happy for them its amazing to see what God is doing with them and thier life. I know my time will come. I will trust and follow Gods timing! For I know its the best timing!

What makes you happy?

This past weekend I watched a movie about what makes people happy. They looked and money,nope didnt make people happy actually made people depressed. They looked realtionships and helping others, yep those are proven to make you happy! Loving and helping others. They movie said when you live for a higher goal thann jusy yourself youll br happy. Well I was all amen! Soumds like true faith and being a servent  makes us happy! So what will yoy do to be happy today???